From: Wedding Palace Visitor
Posted: 10/14/2009 4:56:29 AM
Subject: My fiance and I both agreed th
Question: My fiance and I both agreed that he would pick his groomsmen and I would pick my bridesmaids. all of my bridesmaids have been ok with the groomsmen walking them down the aisle but one of my bridesmaids (the matron of honor by default) does not understand that her husband is not in the wedding, I only asked her since my fiance has his groomsmen already. When I had told her today that another one of my friends agreed to be in the wedding she stated 'did her boyfriend say yes too?' and when I told her that it makes no difference because we already have groomsmen she did not reply. All of my bridesmaids are ok with walking down the aisle with the groomsmen and understand that they will not be their boyfriend but she doesn't seem to understand. The only bridesmaid that is walking down the aisle with her boyfriend is my soon to be sister in law but that is because her boyfriend is a groomsmen since him and my fiance are friends. My fiance doesn't know my bridesmaids boyfriends or husband very well so he is not comfortable with the men being in the wedding. How can I get it through to her that her husband isn't walking her down the aisle without offending her? It seems everytime I bring up the subject she says nothing. I need help.
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