From: Wedding Palace Visitor
Posted: 11/22/2009 2:31:47 PM
Subject: I'm wondering if I should in
Question: I'm wondering if I should include my stepsister in my wedding. She and I did not grow up in the same household. In the 20 years I've known her she's either ignored me by not speaking when I would visit my dad(wouldn't even acknowledge my presence or say hello), or when she would speak would be incredibly rude. My stepmom expects her daughter to be included in my wedding, and I know it'll start an argument with her if I tell her why I don't want her daughter included. My stepmom thinks her 34 year old daughter who still acts this way towards me and other family members is some sort of angel that everyone should tiptoe around and we should just ignore her rudeness. What would be the best way to handle this? I really don't want my stepsister included in my wedding and she's not someone I could ever count on. I would wonder if she would even show up to my wedding if I included her.
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