From: Wedding Palace Visitor
Posted: 12/23/2007 6:42:16 PM
Subject: I meet my fiancé 5 months ago;
Question: I meet my fiancé 5 months ago; it wasn’t easy for me to trust him because at the time my heart was broken buy another man. My fiancé was persistent and always sure of himself. He made me love him so much, our only problem was the distance, I live in FL and he lives in Mexico. A month ago I went to Mexico and he proposed to me and I asked him if he was sure of what he was doing, and he never seamed so sure. I started looking for job in Mexico and 4 weeks later I got an awesome job near where he lives, it seamed so perfect. I was supposed to move in with him in 3 weeks and start working on 4 weeks. But out wedding was going to be 11 months after I moved in. The day after I told him I got that job he called me early in the morning and said we where rushing things and he’s unsure and scared. I took it really bad; it was like a stab in the heart. He said he was afraid that if I go there and something happens to him I would be all alone, it seamed to me like excuses all I could think of was about him not wanting me with him. I really think he’s the one for me, but I don’t understand how could that be if am not the one for him. I called him a day later and told him that I dint see a future with him and I don’t want to hear from him. I feel that was a mistake and am wondering if I should call back or, what should I do to work things out?
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