Response: Hello Joanne, It isnt wrong to want to sit in the front pew on the aisle, keeping in mind that the bride will make the final decision. If your husband is walking the bride down the aisle, then he should be seated on the aisle in either the front pew or the second one. If you get along with the mother and her husband, and the pew is long enough, then you might all sit together. If you dont get along, or space is limited, then let the bride make the decision of who sits where, keeping in mind that it really isnt a big deal.
Many brides never think of the seating until they get to the rehearsal. Therefore, you might ask the bride if she has thought about it and the logistics and see how she responds. If she hasnt thought about it, then you can remind her of her dads need to be seated last and see how the conversation goes.
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