Response: Because you are already legally married, your vow renewal is a symbolic ceremony. Therefore, you have much latitude in what you do. For instance, you can have a father, grandfather, friend, or anyone that you choose perform the ceremony. You can write the words yourselves and repeat them to one another with the officiant making introductory remarks, welcoming the guests and then asking you to seal your pledges to one another with a kiss.
You do not need to have a wedding party since this isnt a wedding. If you have children, they might stand with you. You omit the exchange of rings unless you are getting a new ring, such as an anniversary ring. Your father can walk in with you, but the question of 'who presents this woman...' would be omitted since you are already married.
As you can see, there is great flexibility in what you do. Your ceremony might be as simple as the two of you going somewhere alone and reciting your vows to one another or it might be a picnic or BBQ or you can have a more formal celebration followed by a reception with dancing and dinner. It is up to what the two of you want and can afford. What you have chosen to wear is fine. You dont need to dress more formally.
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