Response: If the boy friend is a recent one, then he does not need to be invited. However, if he is a long term boy friend or they are close to becoming engaged, the proper thing to do is to invite him. As for the shoes, that seems like an odd way to try to stand out. Actually, today most maids of honor dress just like the other bridesmaids. It is passe for the maid of honor to dress differently. Your daughter will have to decide whether the shoe issue is worth an argument or to let it go and hope that the photographer doesnt include the feet in photos.
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