Response: You may want to consider hiring a day of coordinator just to help keep the peace and keep you from stressing out, particularly if the two moms are not getting along.
Personally, I would find it rude to not allow the grooms parents to see you before the wedding. If you want to develop a loving, family relationship with them, then they should be treated with respect, not like the other guests.
When do you plan to do your photos? The family photos at least, and often all of the photos, are taken before the ceremony. Therefore, it would not be unreasonable for everyone except the groom to see you.
Anyone who knows how to pin on a corsage and boutonierre can pin them on. Generally it is the coordinators job, but even photographers do it if they have to.
You do not need to wear the veil over your face if you feel uncomfortable doing so. Many veils are not made to be worn over the face. Do what seems best to you, not what someone insists that you must do.
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