Response: It is normal to have pre-wedding jitters and to be overwhelmed with the enormity of the commitment you are about to make. If you have not yet had pre-marital counseling, that should be your first step. A neutral third party can help both of you to explore facets of your relationship that you havent even considered yet. That will either confirm to you that Brian is the right one, or it may cause you to delay the wedding for awhile to work through issues. You want to go into the marriage with no regrets and no 'what ifs.' Counseling can help with that. The person performing your ceremony may offer pre-marital counseling or they may be able to recommend someone who does.
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