Response: Your daughter seems to want it all, though it appears that she knows that it isnt socially appropriate. She needs to choose between inviting all of the guests to the wedding or having a reception later. If she chooses to have a reception, then she should have a small shower to which only those invited to the wedding are invited.
If she chooses to invite a large number of guests to the wedding, all of those guests would not be invited to a shower. Only close friends and family are invited to a shower. Your daughter needs to decide which she wants - a reception or to invite everyone to the wedding.
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