From: Wedding Palace Visitor
Response: Hi Penny:
Congratulations on your upcoming fall wedding!
This is such a sore subject with many people. I do agree with your hurt feelings and believe I would feel the same way. The only real potential problem, however, is if your fiance has lots of out of town family. Those family members will probably have to make a choice of which wedding to come to, the one in July or yours in September. If most of the invited guests are local or dont have far to drive, it should not be a problem. Dont feel like you are coming in second place as each wedding will be different. As an invited guest, I would not think twice about going to a family wedding in July and then another one in September. I had this happen in my own family. I had one sister that was married in May and the other in October. As in your case, one will be a summer wedding, and yours will be a fall wedding.
Best of luck and I hope you have a beautiful wedding!
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