From: Wedding Palace Visitor
Response: I am a true believer in trusting your gut! I dated my fiance for 6 years before we got engaged and like already mentioned, 5 1/2 years is nothing to sneeze at. Hopefully youve lasted this long and have become engaged by trusting your gut the last 5 1/2 years. However, if you have to talk yourself into the idea of getting married just bec. youve been together for 'sooo long' compared to most couples these days, and because its comfortable, and for fear that if you admit its not right then youve wasted all that time of his and yours...just imagine wasting 50 years with the wrong guy! 5 1/2 years will seem like forever with the wrong guy but should hopefully feel like the blink of an eye if hes the right guy for you. Dont let your past define who you are today.... You CAN and will be happy if you trust in God to tell you what his plan is for you, and then just listen to your GUT! Women know its always right!
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