Response: Whether you should ask your fiance to change the setting of your ring depends on several things. One issue is how it will make him feel. He may feel that his choice wasnt good enough and that can translate into years of him not giving you gifts because he is concerned that you wont like them, will want to exchange them, or some other problem. You definitely dont want to give the impression that you dont like his taste.
Another issue is the cost involved. It is possible that your fiance would have liked to have chosen a different setting but couldnt afford what he wanted. It is also possible that changing the setting will void the warranty on the ring.
Once you think through the issues, then you can decide whether to approach your fiance about changing the setting now or to wait and suggest it for a future anniversary.
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